Consistency in Discipline
The child said he wanted consistency in discipline. “If you ask me ‘have you bathe? And I don’t answer you take my silence as a ‘No’ and you order me, sometimes with the added burden of ‘a threat of punishment’, to stop whatever I am doing and go and bathe”. Then all of a sudden there is an act of mischief in the house, like undeclared broken glass and if I keep quiet when I am asked ‘Child, are you the one who broke the glass?’ you just pronounce me guilty. The silence to you becomes ‘yes!’ I wish that my silence means either ‘yes’ or ‘no’ & that you be consistent' The laughter no be here. See sense! The Pikin does not know that we have been around for a long time; done all; he probably thinks he invented ‘the golden silence’ tactics of avoiding responsibilities. Considering that we have never been wrong in the different ways we have interpreted his silence must show him that there is more to the determination of what he says or doesn’t say. Like the child, we all SHOW (by ...