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You must NEVER accept as okay anything that is abnormal/wrong in your life.   You must continue to fight to change your situation no matter how you feel or what others say about how hopeless your situation is.   There is always a 1st time, right? Your getting out of the doldrums may well be one of such.   Your belief that things can change for the better could be the factor that makes it work, against all odds for you.   Do not settle!   Now rise & repeat after me:   I will not accept as okay anything abnormal/wrong in my life. I will fight to change my situation for the better. It may be uncommon in my experience but improving my life will be my testimony. It may not have happened to anyone I know, but I will give testimonies that make the ears of hearers tickle! (Do you get it?)   Now, get to work & make the required changes!

Everywhere there are people, just take a look and you will see a system in place. This system is set up by the people to successfully deal with their environment, with one another, and with people from other groups. This system, a way of doing things, then governs their behavior and how they interact with the world. The rules set up in the system will be largely driven by what the people value. Where this value is not explicit, take a look at what the people reward and celebrate and you will see what their true values are, even when they misstate these. Recall that the system was put in place to regulate the people but after a while the system becomes self-sustaining. It takes on a life and personality of its own and begins to regulate things around it. A close observation often shows that the system then begins to perpetuate itself by dictating for and running the people who are in its sphere. Some call the system a matrix, way, others call it culture, and many other names. Some of th...