Friends Before, Friends Again?

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The changes are usually subtle, in little ways & in little things.

These changes are wrought by our experiences, some are life-changing, some very minute. It could come resulting from an event or a series of events.

Sometimes, introspection helps one realizes what he is or what he should be & he makes the change. It could be triggered by a speech or some written material.

In the last year, I have thus been changed!

Who I am now is slightly different from who I was a year ago, I know this.

The extent of the chasm of the change you'd notice in me depends on who you are, what your values are, how close we have interacted in the foregone period, etc.

If you have a friend that you have not kept in touch with for up to a year, don't assume based on the past that he's still that old person. You may be disappointed, badly. Consider, for example, that your changes led you to the 'South' & his led him to the 'North', then when you reestablish relations determine the extent of the chasm before you make assumptions, badly damaging a relationship that needs a reevaluation.

Pix credit - Compass: https://easydrawingguides.com/how-to-draw-a-compass-rose/

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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